Why do you want to join our group?
Desire, desire to learn the context behind this group and its activities. I'm a full-time student, yet with a passion to coach and learn anything that is in alignment within myself, be it work or anything that is relevant to my everyday tasks, even creating and nurturing intimacy of relationships. I've heard and had also read up about the driving intent behind Cuddle Party Singapore. I feel that it's strongly congruent with my values and what I want to achieve to make my environment a better place. This area of communication is something I'm unable to model from my family, and therefore I felt that this is something priceless that I would like to learn from holistic community.
Please tell us what Boundaries and Consent mean to you and how you handle them?
Boundaries and consent starts with a holistic congruency between the mind and the body, as well as listening deeply within to trust clearly what I would want and wouldn't want without making it a wrong or right. When I am concentrated on my breathing pattern, my mind and body is on response mode than reaction mode. When I am able to calmly and neutrally respond to communicating (asking/sharing) needs and wants, I am able to respect each other's boundaries and listen closely to consents. In short, it's like a child-like, way to ask for consent, give consent without the need to create a drama to give or get. I would handle it this way at the best to avoid pressing minefields or allowing people to step on my own minefield that I don't know. I just opened a floodgate, hope you don't mind at all.